In addition, it can be hard to find the “real” person behind the public face presented in front of the entire family.
No one is the same in a group setting as he or she is one-on-one.
First and foremost, dating is a time when a Christian finds out if his or her potential marriage partner is also a believer in Christ.
The Bible warns us that believers and unbelievers should not marry each other, because those living in the light (of Christ) and those living in the darkness cannot live in harmony (2 Corinthians -15).
Are we supposed to be actively looking for a spouse?
suppose you'd expect a man who's been married 30 years to a beautiful, intelligent woman would be able to share with you the intimate secrets to having a perfect marriage. That's because my wife and I don't have a perfect marriage.
The Christian dating couple must have boundaries in place and be committed to not crossing them.As stated before, during this time there should be little or no physical contact, as this is something that should wait until marriage (1 Corinthians -20).Courtship takes the position that the two people have no physical contact at all (no touching, no hand-holding, no kissing) until marriage.Kay is without a doubt my best friend, and we have a wonderful relationship—but as far as a perfect marriage, well, there's no such thing.What Kay and I do have is a marriage centered on Christ, specifically focused on glorifying God.