Don’t ghost because shit comes around and someone you really like will ghost on you and you will internalize it and wonder why and if you’re defective. You can’t want a cleaner world and toss your bag of Wendy’s out your car window. Most likely, you guys are both looking for something that will turn into a relationship. If you have been inside someone or someone has been inside you, both of you have a right to ask what’s up. If you don’t want to be monogamous, then tell them. But don’t act like your time was wasted or that you were ripped off. Your parents had to kiss a lot of frogs before they met so why shouldn’t you? And if you think it should, you’re entitled and don’t have the tools to build a relationship so stop dating until you grow the fuck up. Know that you got to hear a new story, as did they, and that’s a privilege. If things did work out, then make it clear that you like then. There is already something false about this and he or she will smell it and lose trust. You’re not being mysterious in a good way by keeping someone in the dark. If you guys have sex, don’t pretend like you didn’t. Be a good fucking human, the kind that your kids would be proud of, and be respectful. But if you are not transparent, you are already fucking things up. I understand that’s difficult because it takes vulnerability. After a few months of are-they-or-aren’t-they conspiracy theories, the pair — who first sparked romance rumors back in December after the rapper was spotted (twice!This only works when you’re dating a lady and not an entitled you-know-what. If your woman wants nothing more than you, then give her everything and you.
Don’t treat it like it’s a fucking business meeting or something that just happened by chance. And of course, dinner reservations were already made. Instead of creating a space for romance, curiosity, build up, foreplay, and flirting, we just want the punchline. Except the lottery balls are faces and the glass box is our phone. I’m going to speak to men because hopefully, men are still taking the lead these days. Or if you’re gay, I’m talking to whoever takes the lead. After getting ready, I would pick her up from her apartment. I would compliment her appearance and mean it as we walked to my car. And if there was a spark and things went well on the date, she’d get flowers or a note or something she can actually hold in the next few days. ) at the singer’s Las Vegas show — have ended their whirlwind relationship …which an insider close to the rapper revealed “was never very serious” to begin with.