On that note, NEVER, under ANY circumstances, trust a girl who only takes pictures from the neck up. (Side Note: I have friends who have found their WIVES on dating sites. If you approach a woman unsure if she likes you or not, you will fish for reassurance. If you do not convey confidence, it will result in her NOT be attracted to you. Assuming attraction will help you but won’t always work. This will be VERY similar to text conversations with Stacey and Alesha in Redheads and Bedspreads, which you’ve already read. Because she did come across “warm” when I opened her, I shot for the insta-date. ” When that night didn’t work, I immediately pitched her another day. Because she didn’t just say “thanks,” but, “hey thanks,” (meaning she put forth just a tiny bit of effort to avoid a one-word response) I assumed this girl to be a warmish lead. The only think I know FOR SURE about the girl on the other end of my Tinder message is this: She swiped right. That’s what she wanted, so why should I beat around the bush? Notice that once I asked, she already had date ideas! She had been WAITING for a confident man to just man the hell up and directly ASK her out. This is why what you learned about using “funny pick up lines,” didn’t work. Every message you waste on Tinder is another another sign to her that says, “I’m uncertain of whether you like me or not. Just KNOW, with ZERO doubts, that she wants to hang out with you and act accordingly. There are far more of those than girls like the two above. If a girl is interested, she will at least say hello (it requires HALF A SECOND OF HER TIME) and see what your second message might be.